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Chuck Jones is an award-winning speaker, trainer, e-learning developer, and professional magician. He holds a B.A. in Psychology and an M.A.Ed. with a specialization in Curriculum and Instructional Design for Adult Learners. With more than 30 years in the corporate training and development arena, he has spoken at many conferences for the E-Learning Guild, Association for Talent Development, and Training Magazine. As a magician, he has performed in close-up, parlor and stage venues throughout the US and can be found most weekends performing at Poe's Magic Theatre in Baltimore, MD. Visit him online (as his stage persona, Chuck Thomas) at www.chuckthomasmagic.com.

Wednesday, January 17, 2024

In Honor of Worldwide Mentoring Day, a Personal Thank You to My Mentors

Today (January 17) is International Mentoring Day. In the past week, I have posted two blog articles related to mentoring. The first provides five reasons why you should find a mentor. The second lists five reasons why you should be a mentor. Having been both a mentor and a mentee – and facilitating corporate training sessions on how to become a mentor, I know first-hand the power of having a mentor. 

In 2017, at the age of 54, I took up magic as a hobby. That hobby has since grown and now I’m considered a semi-professional. Getting to this level would not have been possible without some very important mentors. I’d like to publicly share my experiences with them in the hopes of inspiring you to find a mentor and establish your own professional relationships, no matter your industry or field.


Jeff McBride
 

Jeff McBride Teaching MagicPut together a list of top 10 magicians in the world and my current mentor, Jeff McBride, would surely be on it. Jeff has performed magic his entire life. So dedicated and committed is he to helping others learn their craft, he opened a school in Las Vegas that teaches magicians how to become better technicians and performers. He provides insights and guidance tailor-made for my specific goals and aspirations, and he has really accelerated my learning curve. Without his letting me learn through his experience and seeing magic through his eyes, I would not be at the level I am today, regularly performing at various magic venues and in theatres on the East Coast.

 

I know I am not Jeff’s only student, but when we meet each month, he sure makes me feel like I am. Jeff regularly offers me feedback and constructive criticism and helps me identify areas for improvement with both my technical performance of each magic effect and the showmanship required to dazzle an audience with that effect. His unwavering support and encouragement have only served to boost my self-confidence and belief in my abilities.

 

Jeff likes to say that a goal not written down is merely a wish. And so, each January, he has me write down my goals for the coming year and we review them together. Then, through the course of that year, he helps me achieve them! He has helped me map out a clear path towards my own aspirations while breaking some of those larger tasks into smaller, manageable steps. He also holds me accountable by assigning “homework” and having me apply what I have learned in my next performance, even reviewing and discussing videos of my performances – all to make me better a better performer.

 

Jeff has helped me to build my network by introducing me (usually through e-mail or text message) to magicians in his network who he believes can help me in my learning. Then, when he and I come back together the following month, we talk about what I have learned.

 

But it’s not just about the practical stuff. Jeff is also a source of inspiration and motivation. Knowing that he believes in my potential and is invested in my success helps me through those times when I feel like giving up. He has been teacher, coach, director, and listener. He provides a safe space for me to discuss my ideas, brainstorm ways to make an effect stronger, while fostering my personal growth. Jeff has been my mentor since 2020. Without him, I would not have achieved so much in such little time.


Scott Alexander

 

Magician Scott Alexander
I would be remiss if I did not take a moment to honor the memory of my first mentor in magic, Scott Alexander. Watching Scott perform on a cruise ship a decade ago ignited a spark within me that would start me on this wild and crazy journey. Eventually, I met Scott, and he became my mentor, collaborator, and friend. We appeared on stage together several times in 2021 and 2022, and we would sit around in the local diner after each show where he would provide insights and offer suggestions that would help me become a better performer. His methods may have been unusual at times, but the lessons from those methods sure stuck! 


During the pandemic, Scott and I collaborated on a magic “trick” which we created together and marketed to other magicians. Through that process, I was amazed by Scott’s precision for detail, his pursuit of excellence, and his determination for magicians to always perform good magic. That is what he wanted. I have the privilege of having performed with – and being friends with several other magicians whom he has guided along the way. 


Sadly, we lost Scott at the young age of 52 nearly one year ago. Who knows what contributions he would have made to the profession of magic? Sadly, we will never know. Rest in peace, my friend!

Tuesday, January 16, 2024

Five Compelling Reasons Why You Should Consider Being a Mentor

Serving as a mentor can be a highly rewarding experience. While most often mentors focus on supporting and guiding their mentees, mentors themselves can reap several benefits. Here, then, are five reasons why being a mentor can benefit you.

Personal Growth and Self-Reflection

 

One of the most significant advantages of being a mentor is the opportunity for personal growth and self-reflection. As a mentor, you will frequently find yourself reflecting on your own experiences, knowledge, and skills. Sharing your wisdom and guidance provides you a deeper understanding of your own strengths, weaknesses, and areas for improvement. This constant self-reflection can help foster your own personal growth and develop empathy, patience, and communication skills crucial for your relationship with the person you are mentoring.

 

Continued Learning

 

Serving as a mentor allows you to learn. In your mentoring relationship, you will find the person you are mentoring has experiences, challenges, and perspectives that differ from yours. This exposure helps to broaden your knowledge, reflect upon your own insights, and see things from another person’s point of view. Your mentee’s ideas, innovations and perspectives can only serve to spark your curiosity and inspire your personal and professional development.

 

Make a Difference

 

Imagine the satisfaction of making a positive impact on someone’s life. When you are a mentor, you can guide, inspire, and empower another human being towards achieving their goals and aspirations. Your expertise and experiences can provide profound guidance and support to your mentee, helping them to apply the knowledge you share to their own personal and professional challenges, not to mention opening them up to opportunities they may not have had otherwise. Witnessing their growth and success can be immensely fulfilling, knowing that you played a role in who and what they’ve become.

 

Expand Your Network

 

Just as the person you mentor can connect with other professionals in your network, so to can you connect with individuals in theirs. This helps you both expand your personal and professional networks. Through these new contacts, you may hear new ideas, learn about new industries, and perhaps even find someone with whom you can collaborate on a project. You can also establish yourself as a thought leader in your field.

 

Leave a Lasting Legacy

 

Being a mentor can help you shape the future by leaving a legacy through the knowledge and guidance you impart to the person you are mentoring. This can be your way of creating a stronger, more capable, and resilient future for your industry. Your insights, values and wisdom will continue to influence and inspire your mentees long after your mentoring relationship ends. This legacy serves as a powerful testament to your impact as a mentor. As the bumper sticker says, “I touch the future, I teach!” That applies to mentors as well.

 

Becoming a mentor offers tremendous personal rewards not only to your mentee, but to you as well. From self-reflection and continued learning to making a real difference, expanding your network, and leaving a lasting legacy, being a mentor can bring immeasurable value. By sharing your expertise, experiences, and support, you empower others to grow, succeed and become the best versions of themselves. Become a mentor today!

Friday, January 12, 2024

Five Compelling Reasons to Seek a Mentor for Personal and Professional Growth

In today’s fast-paced and competitive world, having a mentor can be a game-changer for individuals seeking personal and professional development. Acting as a trusted advisor, confidant, and guide, mentors can provide valuable insights, support, and a fresh perspective. So here are five compelling reasons why having a mentor is crucial for your success.

Gaining Knowledge and Expertise

 

A mentor shares the wisdom he has gained over the years, including valuable knowledge and expertise acquired through their own experiences. Regardless of your field or industry, having a mentor allows you to tap into a wealth of knowledge. They provide insights, tips, and guidance specific to your aspirations, helping you make informed decisions, avoid common pitfalls, and accelerate your learning curve.

 

Building a Network

 

Having a mentor helps you gain access to their vast network of professional contacts. Your personal and professional growth can be well-served through establishing connections and expanding your network. Mentors can introduce you to folks like you which can lead to collaboration and job opportunities, as well as industry experts. Through your mentor’s network, you can be exposed to new ideas, experiences, and opportunities that you may not have had without this mentorship.

 

Personal Development and Confidence Boost

 

A mentor not only provides professional guidance, but also plays a vital role in your personal development. They help you identify and capitalize on your strengths, while also guiding you through your weaknesses. Through regular feedback and constructive criticism, mentors help foster your own self-awareness that allows you to identify areas for improvement and to work towards your personal growth. In addition, a mentor’s support and encouragement can significantly boost your self-confidence and belief in your abilities.

 

Setting and Achieving Goals

 

Mentors aid in setting realistic and achievable goals by providing a fresh perspective and objective insight. They help you in mapping out a clear path towards your aspirations, breaking down daunting tasks into smaller, manageable steps. Mentors are accountability partners, holding you responsible for your progress and helping you stay motivated on your journey. Their guidance can increase your chances of achieving your goals.

 

A Source of Inspiration

 

Mentors can – and often do – serve as a source of inspiration and motivation. Knowing that someone believes in your potential and is invested in your success can be invaluable during challenging times in your journey. Mentors can offer guidance during career transitions, provide emotional support, and listen to your ideas and offer their opinions. Your personal relationship with a mentor is a safe place for open discussion, brainstorming and problem-solving, and a source for your achieving personal growth and resilience.



A mentor can play a pivotal role in your personal and professional growth. From providing much-needed valuable knowledge and expertise to offering emotional support and motivation, having a mentor can be one of the most beneficial things you can do. Their years of experiences, their wisdom and their professional network can help you overcome obstacles, achieve your goals, and maximize your potential. Find a mentor today! New opportunities for personal and professional success await!


In Honor of Worldwide Mentoring Day, a Personal Thank You to My Mentors

Today (January 17) is International Mentoring Day . In the past week, I have posted two blog articles related to mentoring. The first provid...