In Honor of Worldwide Mentoring Day, a Personal Thank You to My Mentors

Today (January 17) is International Mentoring Day. In the past week, I have posted two blog articles related to mentoring. The first provides five reasons why you should find a mentor. The second lists five reasons why you should be a mentor. Having been both a mentor and a mentee – and facilitating corporate training sessions on how to become a mentor, I know first-hand the power of having a mentor. 

In 2017, at the age of 54, I took up magic as a hobby. That hobby has since grown and now I’m considered a semi-professional. Getting to this level would not have been possible without some very important mentors. I’d like to publicly share my experiences with them in the hopes of inspiring you to find a mentor and establish your own professional relationships, no matter your industry or field.

Jeff McBride

 

Put together a list of top 10 magicians in the world and my current mentor, Jeff McBride, would surely be on it. Jeff has performed magic his entire life. So dedicated and committed is he to helping others learn their craft, he opened a school in Las Vegas that teaches magicians how to become better technicians and performers. He provides insights and guidance tailor-made for my specific goals and aspirations, and he has really accelerated my learning curve. Without his letting me learn through his experience and seeing magic through his eyes, I would not be at the level I am today, regularly performing at various magic venues and in theatres on the East Coast.

 

I know I am not Jeff’s only student, but when we meet each month, he sure makes me feel like I am. Jeff regularly offers me feedback and constructive criticism and helps me identify areas for improvement with both my technical performance of each magic effect and the showmanship required to dazzle an audience with that effect. His unwavering support and encouragement have only served to boost my self-confidence and belief in my abilities.

 

Jeff likes to say that a goal not written down is merely a wish. And so, each January, he has me write down my goals for the coming year and we review them together. Then, through the course of that year, he helps me achieve them! He has helped me map out a clear path towards my own aspirations while breaking some of those larger tasks into smaller, manageable steps. He also holds me accountable by assigning “homework” and having me apply what I have learned in my next performance, even reviewing and discussing videos of my performances – all to make me better a better performer.

 

Jeff has helped me to build my network by introducing me (usually through e-mail or text message) to magicians in his network who he believes can help me in my learning. Then, when he and I come back together the following month, we talk about what I have learned.

 

But it’s not just about the practical stuff. Jeff is also a source of inspiration and motivation. Knowing that he believes in my potential and is invested in my success helps me through those times when I feel like giving up. He has been teacher, coach, director, and listener. He provides a safe space for me to discuss my ideas, brainstorm ways to make an effect stronger, while fostering my personal growth. Jeff has been my mentor since 2020. Without him, I would not have achieved so much in such little time.

Scott Alexander

 

I would be remiss if I did not take a moment to honor the memory of my first mentor in magic, Scott Alexander. Watching Scott perform on a cruise ship a decade ago ignited a spark within me that would start me on this wild and crazy journey. Eventually, I met Scott, and he became my mentor, collaborator, and friend. We appeared on stage together several times in 2021 and 2022, and we would sit around in the local diner after each show where he would provide insights and offer suggestions that would help me become a better performer. His methods may have been unusual at times, but the lessons from those methods sure stuck! 

During the pandemic, Scott and I collaborated on a magic “trick” which we created together and marketed to other magicians. Through that process, I was amazed by Scott’s precision for detail, his pursuit of excellence, and his determination for magicians to always perform good magic. That is what he wanted. I have the privilege of having performed with – and being friends with several other magicians whom he has guided along the way. 

Sadly, we lost Scott at the young age of 52 nearly one year ago. Who knows what contributions he would have made to the profession of magic? Sadly, we will never know. Rest in peace, my friend!

Five Compelling Reasons Why You Should Consider Being a Mentor

Serving as a mentor can be a highly rewarding experience. While most often mentors focus on supporting and guiding their mentees, mentors themselves can reap several benefits. Here, then, are five reasons why being a mentor can benefit you.

Personal Growth and Self-Reflection

 

One of the most significant advantages of being a mentor is the opportunity for personal growth and self-reflection. As a mentor, you will frequently find yourself reflecting on your own experiences, knowledge, and skills. Sharing your wisdom and guidance provides you a deeper understanding of your own strengths, weaknesses, and areas for improvement. This constant self-reflection can help foster your own personal growth and develop empathy, patience, and communication skills crucial for your relationship with the person you are mentoring.

 

Continued Learning

 

Serving as a mentor allows you to learn. In your mentoring relationship, you will find the person you are mentoring has experiences, challenges, and perspectives that differ from yours. This exposure helps to broaden your knowledge, reflect upon your own insights, and see things from another person’s point of view. Your mentee’s ideas, innovations and perspectives can only serve to spark your curiosity and inspire your personal and professional development.

 

Make a Difference

 

Imagine the satisfaction of making a positive impact on someone’s life. When you are a mentor, you can guide, inspire, and empower another human being towards achieving their goals and aspirations. Your expertise and experiences can provide profound guidance and support to your mentee, helping them to apply the knowledge you share to their own personal and professional challenges, not to mention opening them up to opportunities they may not have had otherwise. Witnessing their growth and success can be immensely fulfilling, knowing that you played a role in who and what they’ve become.

 

Expand Your Network

 

Just as the person you mentor can connect with other professionals in your network, so to can you connect with individuals in theirs. This helps you both expand your personal and professional networks. Through these new contacts, you may hear new ideas, learn about new industries, and perhaps even find someone with whom you can collaborate on a project. You can also establish yourself as a thought leader in your field.

 

Leave a Lasting Legacy

 

Being a mentor can help you shape the future by leaving a legacy through the knowledge and guidance you impart to the person you are mentoring. This can be your way of creating a stronger, more capable, and resilient future for your industry. Your insights, values and wisdom will continue to influence and inspire your mentees long after your mentoring relationship ends. This legacy serves as a powerful testament to your impact as a mentor. As the bumper sticker says, “I touch the future, I teach!” That applies to mentors as well.

 

Becoming a mentor offers tremendous personal rewards not only to your mentee, but to you as well. From self-reflection and continued learning to making a real difference, expanding your network, and leaving a lasting legacy, being a mentor can bring immeasurable value. By sharing your expertise, experiences, and support, you empower others to grow, succeed and become the best versions of themselves. Become a mentor today!

Five Compelling Reasons to Seek a Mentor for Personal and Professional Growth

In today’s fast-paced and competitive world, having a mentor can be a game-changer for individuals seeking personal and professional development. Acting as a trusted advisor, confidant, and guide, mentors can provide valuable insights, support, and a fresh perspective. So here are five compelling reasons why having a mentor is crucial for your success.

Gaining Knowledge and Expertise

 

A mentor shares the wisdom he has gained over the years, including valuable knowledge and expertise acquired through their own experiences. Regardless of your field or industry, having a mentor allows you to tap into a wealth of knowledge. They provide insights, tips, and guidance specific to your aspirations, helping you make informed decisions, avoid common pitfalls, and accelerate your learning curve.

 

Building a Network

 

Having a mentor helps you gain access to their vast network of professional contacts. Your personal and professional growth can be well-served through establishing connections and expanding your network. Mentors can introduce you to folks like you which can lead to collaboration and job opportunities, as well as industry experts. Through your mentor’s network, you can be exposed to new ideas, experiences, and opportunities that you may not have had without this mentorship.

 

Personal Development and Confidence Boost

 

A mentor not only provides professional guidance, but also plays a vital role in your personal development. They help you identify and capitalize on your strengths, while also guiding you through your weaknesses. Through regular feedback and constructive criticism, mentors help foster your own self-awareness that allows you to identify areas for improvement and to work towards your personal growth. In addition, a mentor’s support and encouragement can significantly boost your self-confidence and belief in your abilities.

 

Setting and Achieving Goals

 

Mentors aid in setting realistic and achievable goals by providing a fresh perspective and objective insight. They help you in mapping out a clear path towards your aspirations, breaking down daunting tasks into smaller, manageable steps. Mentors are accountability partners, holding you responsible for your progress and helping you stay motivated on your journey. Their guidance can increase your chances of achieving your goals.

 

A Source of Inspiration

 

Mentors can – and often do – serve as a source of inspiration and motivation. Knowing that someone believes in your potential and is invested in your success can be invaluable during challenging times in your journey. Mentors can offer guidance during career transitions, provide emotional support, and listen to your ideas and offer their opinions. Your personal relationship with a mentor is a safe place for open discussion, brainstorming and problem-solving, and a source for your achieving personal growth and resilience.

A mentor can play a pivotal role in your personal and professional growth. From providing much-needed valuable knowledge and expertise to offering emotional support and motivation, having a mentor can be one of the most beneficial things you can do. Their years of experiences, their wisdom and their professional network can help you overcome obstacles, achieve your goals, and maximize your potential. Find a mentor today! New opportunities for personal and professional success await!

The Magic of Restoration: Nurturing Growth Through Self-Care and Balance

This time of year always brings about goals for the next year. Lose weight. Exercise daily. Eat better. Those are my big goals for 2024. But I cannot achieve them unless I prioritize my own well-being. Just like a magician ripping a newspaper to shreds only to fully restore it with a flick of the wrists, we can apply the principles of magic to our lives to discover the transformative power of restoration. Through a perspective of self-care, rejuvenation, and maintaining balance, we can unlock our potential and create a life full of joy, peace, and happiness.

Embracing Self-Care as Magic

Self-care is the foundation of personal growth. Nurturing your physical and mental well-being through regular exercise, proper nutrition, quality sleep, and self-reflection can profoundly transform your daily life. Personally, I need improvement in all four of these areas and will focus on them this year.

Recharging Your Soul

Just like a magician replenishes their energy, we must recharge our souls regularly. This involves engaging in activities that bring us joy and peace. Explore different ways to recharge, such as practicing mindfulness and meditation, immersing yourself in nature, pursuing hobbies, or simply engaging in activities that ignite your passion and make your heart sing.

 

The Power of Balance

Achieving personal growth requires maintaining balance in all aspects of life. Dive into the notion of balance and how it affects our overall well-being. Discover practical strategies to balance work and personal life, nurture relationships, and create harmony in your daily routines. From setting boundaries to embracing simplicity, find the magical equilibrium that brings peace and fulfillment to your life. I've been working on a magic effect relating to balance, and I'll share it in a future post.

 

Unleashing the Magic Within

As you delve deeper into restoration and self-care, you'll begin to tap into your own inner magic. Learn how aligning with your authentic self, embracing vulnerability, and practicing self-compassion can ignite your personal growth journey. Explore how setting intentions, visualizing your goals, and embodying gratitude can manifest magic in your life, leading to a transformative growth process.

 

Weaving Magic into Your Daily Life

Magic can be incorporated into every aspect of your life. From creating a self-care routine to establishing mindful practices throughout the day, discover how you can make magic a part of your life, resulting in sustained personal growth and an overall sense of fulfillment.

Applying the principles of magic metaphorically to our lives, we can unlock the power of restoration and personal growth. By prioritizing self-care, rejuvenation, and maintaining balance, we allow ourselves to flourish, manifesting joy, peace, and happiness in all areas of our lives. So, embark on this magical journey of restoration, and watch as your personal growth blossoms before you.

 

Remember, just like a magician, you hold the power to create magic in your life.

The Magic of Self-Exploration: Penetrating Solid Objects and Delving Within

In the world of magic, there is one awe-inspiring act that defies our understanding of what is physically possible, and that is when the magician passes one solid object through another. As mesmerizing as this is, it goes beyond mere entertainment and can give us insights into ourselves. Let’s explore the connection between this magical effect of penetration and the power it holds to inspire us to delve deep within ourselves to gain a better understanding of our own emotions and thoughts.

The Illusion of Penetrating Solid Objects

Magicians have made it seem as though they can effortlessly penetrate solid objects. Whether it is David Copperfield seemingly walking right through the Great Wall of China, or yours truly penetrating a balloon with a long sewing needle, magicians use various techniques to create the perception of something impossible. Similarly, in life we often encounter situations and challenges that appear impenetrable. But just as a magician navigates through obstacles, so too can we learn to look within ourselves to unravel our own complexities.

Looking Beyond the Surface

When a magician passes one solid object through another, we are forced to question and challenge what we perceive as reality. Looking inward requires us to see beyond the surface of our emotions and thoughts. Instead of accepting them at face value, we must seek to understand their underlying causes, while acknowledging their complexity and depth.

Breaking Through Limiting Beliefs

When we explore our inner selves, we can break through limiting beliefs that hinder personal growth and self-discovery. Questioning our established beliefs and exploring alternatives enables us to expand our understanding, accept our vulnerabilities, and embrace new possibilities.

Self-Reflection and Misdirection

Magicians use misdirection to divert attention away from their methods while creating the illusion of penetrating solid objects. Similarly, we can use self-reflection as a tool of misdirection, temporarily shifting our focus away from external distractions and directing it inward. We can delve deep within ourselves, penetrating to our very core in order to gain a better understanding of our emotions, thoughts, and those things that drive us to do what we do.

Connecting with Universal Human Experiences

Our emotions, thoughts, and motivations are universal human experiences. By understanding ourselves on a deeper level, we gain empathy and compassion for others and make stronger connections with the world around us.

The act of a magician penetrating one solid object through another solid object is not unlike our own quest for self-exploration. By looking deep within ourselves, we can overcome personal obstacles, challenge our limiting beliefs, and connecting with the true essence of ourselves. In the same way that David Copperfield inspires a sense of awe and wonder, we too can tap into our own inner magic and uncover the remarkable mysteries of our emotions, thoughts and motivations. Let us embrace our inner magician to help us penetrate our own cores and unlock the power within each of us.

Unleashing Your Inner Magic: Letting Go of Limiting Beliefs and Self-Doubt

In 1983, master magician David Copperfield made the Statue of Liberty disappear. And just as he made it vanish before our eyes, we too have the power to let go of negative patterns, limiting beliefs, and self-doubt. For me personally in my on-going struggle with weight, it can be tough to tap into that power. But by embracing personal growth and eliminating what no longer serves us, we can create space for new opportunities and experiences. In this article, we’ll look at the parallels between a magician making something disappear and our own ability to release whatever is hindering our personal growth.

The Illusion of Limitation

Just as magicians create illusions that defy our expectations, our negative patterns, limiting beliefs, and self-doubt often trick us into accepting a limited reality. These negative influences serve as misdirection and divert our focus from what truly matters. Only when we recognize these illusions can we begin to free ourselves from the constraints they impose.

Unmasking Obstacles

Magic is only successful if the audience believes in what the magician is performing. In the same way, our negative patterns and limiting beliefs thrive when we accept them without question. We must unmask the obstacles that hold us back and challenge their validity. When we look to the source and nature of self-doubt, we will likely find patterns of thinking that no longer serve us. Then we can start developing strategies to eliminate them from our thinking.

Relinquishing What No Longer Serves Us

A magician’s act relies on precise timing and execution. Similarly, letting go of negative patterns and limiting beliefs requires intention and effort. Before we can consciously choose to release the thoughts, behaviors and emotions that hinder our growth, we must acknowledge them. We do that by seeking support from loved ones, through self-reflection, and exploring techniques like therapy or meditation.

Making Space for New Opportunities

In making something vanish, a magician creates an empty space that prompts anticipation and wonder. When we let go of what no longer serves us, we build room for new opportunities and experiences. By releasing self-doubt and limiting beliefs, we create a place for personal growth to thrive, allowing us to explore new passions, dreams, and relationships that align with our true potential.

Embracing Growth and Change

A magician continually adapts his routines and refines his show. So too does personal growth require embracing change. When we let go of those negative thoughts and beliefs, we embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation. We open our minds and hearts to explore new perspectives, learn from past experiences, and cultivate a growth mindset that brings us closer to achieving our goals.

The art of making something vanish in magic aligns beautifully with our ability to let go of negative thinking, limiting beliefs, and self-doubts. Realizing the illusions these obstacles allow, eliminating what no longer serves us, and making space for new opportunities allows us to embrace personal growth. As magicians can captivate an audience with their tricks, we have the power to captivate ourselves with the unlimited potential that lies within us.

The Magic of Thinking Outside the Box: Unleashing Creativity and Innovation

In today's fast-paced and competitive world, the ability to think outside the box has become increasingly valuable. It allows individuals and organizations to break free from conventional thinking patterns and explore new possibilities. In this blog article, we will explore the parallels between the concept of magic and thinking outside the box, highlighting how both can ignite creativity and drive innovation.

Embracing the Unknown

Magic and thinking outside the box share a common trait - they both thrive on embracing the unknown. Magicians often surprise and captivate their audience by performing effects that defy logic and challenge our perception of reality. Similarly, thinking outside the box involves venturing into uncharted territories, embracing uncertainty, and exploring unconventional ideas that may lead to groundbreaking solutions.

Breaking Limitations

Magic effects often involve breaking the limitations of what we believe to be possible. Magicians push the boundaries of what our minds perceive as reality, leaving us with a sense of awe and wonder. Similarly, thinking outside the box requires breaking free from self-imposed limitations and societal norms. It encourages us to challenge assumptions, question established norms, and explore alternative perspectives to unlock innovative ideas.

Creativity and Innovation

Both magic and thinking outside the box are fueled by creativity and innovation. Magicians use their imaginations to create illusions that seem impossible, and which leave us amazed and entertained. Similarly, thinking outside the box taps into our creative potential, allowing us to generate fresh ideas and find unique solutions to complex problems. It encourages us to connect seemingly unrelated concepts, leading to innovate breakthroughs.

Engaging the Audience

Magic performances are designed to engage and captivate an audience. Magicians create an immersive experience that keeps us on the edge of our seats, eagerly anticipating the next 'a-ha' moment. Similarly, thinking outside the box involves engaging others in collaborative conversations and brainstorming sessions. By encouraging diverse perspectives and active participation, it fosters a dynamic environment that sparks creativity and generates innovative ideas.

Practice and Mastery

Both magic and thinking outside the box require practice and mastery. Magicians spend countless hours honing their skills, perfecting their craft, and polishing their performances. Similarly, thinking outside the box is a skill that can be developed with practice and deliberate effort. By consistently challenging our thinking patterns and seeking new perspectives, we can enhance our ability to generate creative ideas and find unconventional solutions.

To conclude then, the magic of thinking outside the box lies in its ability to unleash creativity and drive innovation. Embracing the unknown, breaking limitations, fostering creativity, engaging others, and practicing the art of thinking differently opens us to a world of possibilities. Let us embrace the magic of thinking outside the box and embark on a journey of endless innovation and growth.

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Chuck Jones is an award-winning speaker, trainer, and e-learning developer as well as a professional magician. He has more than 30 years in the corporate training and development arena and has spoken at numerous conferences including the E-Learning Guild, the Association for Talent Development, and Training Magazine. As a magician, he has performed in numerous close-up, parlor and stage venues throughout the US, including Washington Magic, Elkton Magic, and he can be found most weekends performing at Poe's Magic Theatre in Baltimore, Maryland. Visit him online (as his stage persona, Chuck Thomas) at www.chuckthomasmagic.com.